December 11, 2008

important 3 things


im writing this since im bored and suddenly have the urge to write..and its 12 am..

have i told you guys the 3 most important things i think everyone should have in a relationship?

i dont think so..and i think im gonna emphasize it more on my blog..

what are the 3 things?

first of all is trust and loyalty...

why trust?well..simply because its the most important ingredient in order to make a relationship work...of all my experience with either my friends or ex-s or my friend's ex-s its always come to trust and loyalty when a couple want to break up..

be loyal is hard..especially if you're gorgeous or beautiful..betul tak?all around you there are people yang always hit on you..and sometimes there are someone out there that just 10 times cuter than your girlfriend or better looking than your boyfriend..

but to stay loyal and trust someone with your full heart is anyone greatest obstacle yet..how do you think of getting married to someone you can't stay loyal to?marry for 30 to 40 years..looking at the same face everytime you get back home..think about it..

the second thing is space..

space is a necessity after you achieve total trust with your date..

full trust means you can give her/him full space with no worry that he/her go find some new date,younger or better than you..hehehe

and with enough spaces you wont be smother too much...sesak nafas la kalo kena kongkong je..its that simple..especially for guys..we need time for other guys' stuffs..like..you know..like other guys' stuffs..hahaha

and the third thing is money..

why?because i believe the world go round with money not love alone..

plus..having an extra cash is a good thing right?maintaining a stable relationship..in time,im sure you guys will learn to control your budget and try to cooperate with each other..

so there you go..my 3 most important things to have in a relationship..its not perfect..i know..but im still learning..

till next time..

4 comments:

Breathing.In.Luxembourg said...

Beware of OLDer ladies pun kena dah grrr ha ha. For you, younger guys la :D

Haniff said...

hahaha...older?how old?

Breathing.In.Luxembourg said...

It looks like, the trend now 2-3 years older :D tak main la 1 year je. the older the better. heh :D

Haniff said...

ye ke?hehe...